DEALING WITH A JEALOUS PARTNER

Jealousy generally refers to the thoughts or feelings of insecurity, fear, and concern over a relative lack of possessions or safety.

Jealousy can consist of one or more emotions such as anger, resentment, inadequacy, helplessness or disgust. 

In its original meaning, jealousy is distinct from envy, though the two terms have popularly become synonymous in the English language, with jealousy now also taking on the definition originally used for envy alone.

 Dealing with a jealous or insecure spouse is so complicated and one has to be very careful with such partners around people they feel very comfortable with. . 

Causes of Jealousy or Insecurity

Cheating

Telling of lies

Excess use of social media

Lack of trust.

CHEATING

Most of the time what causes a couple to always feel jealous or insecure is simply because the other partner cheated and they still find it hard to believe that he or she is changed and won't repeat the act again. As a couple, cheating can make you look so cheap and undeserving. Instead of cheating why not end the relationship and do whatever you want without hurting the feelings of your partner.. being faithful to your partner can never make he or she jealous or insecure because they trust you.

TELLING OF LIES

Your partner can start feeling insecure the moment you start telling lies even after he or she caught you in the act. Admitting that you were wrong and making amends will never make your partner jealous of the company you keep. " Lies is like laying a foundation of a building, the more you lie to cover up for the previous, the more you keep lying". Any relationship that is based on lies can never work out. " Two can't work together unless they agree".. no matter how tempted you feel, always come out with the truth and avoid "unnecessary" lies which might cause you your relationship..

EXCESS USE OF SOCIAL MEDIA

Many people don't know that the amount of time you spend on the social media affects their relationship in a sense that not everyone believes their partner isn't seeing someone else due to the amount of time they spend chatting. 

Most people are so addicted to social media to the extent they make their partner feels left out, this is where jealousy or insecurity steps in. If you truly want your relationship to work then put down that gadget and focus on building a happy love life..

LACK OF TRUST

 To again a person's trust you must earn it. due to past relationship experiences many people find it so difficult to trust again. As a result any slight mistake will surely make such partner to feel insecure or jealous.

 As far as you want to be happy with your partner, then staying away from your ex's won't be a big deal because no matter how honest you are if you still hang around with your ex's for any reason, it will surely make your partner feel insecure and jealous...