7 Important Things to Help In The Growth of Your Love Life

Most times, the fault isn't from your partner. You might be the cause of your fallen relationship. How do you expect your once happy love life to still spark when you don't observe the little things that will help it grow.

Do you know joy of having that one special partner who always dream to bring out the best in  you, who's there with you even when things are rough. Well, the feeling is amazing.

Let me explain some of the things you need to  nourish your dying or falling love life...

1: Communication; 

 

So many people don't realize the importance of communication in a relationship, while others feel always talking to your partner will make you cheap and all that. The truth is steady communication is the only way to know when something is wrong  and how to maintain a healthy and happy relationship. 

When communicating with your partner you get to understand he or she better. Make time to sit your partner down, discuss those things that bring problems to your relationship, find a way to resolve them and plan a better future together.

 No one wants to go into a relationship where at the end of the day they get dumped without trying to talk about what went wrong. As a couple  go on picnic, favorite restaurants and places that you feel will boost the flames and leave a smile on your faces. Talk to each other, make preparations for the future, plan it together and you will see the banner of love shining so bright like the morning sun..

2: Responsibility; 

Most Relationships of today is purely based on lies and sweet words which can never build a healthy and happy relationship, we all make mistake at every point in life the most unique way to handle those mistakes is to take responsibility for our actions. 

There is no happy relationship without arguments at some point, as humans it is bound to happen. Never run away from mistakes face them and take corrections. Running away from your problems won't solve them, it will keep piling up  until we learn to responsibilities..

3: Forgiveness; 

Mistakes are bound to occur but learning to forgive is what will determine whether or not the relationship will last. Couple make terrible mistakes and still fight their way through it.

 Forgiveness is a very essential aspect of every relationship that is meant to last . As a couple don't make your partner feel less important because of some mistakes they made in the past, learn to give and let go, the clock might change. 

Loving someone comes with so many responsibilities and forgiveness is one of them. When you forgive your partner of a mistake they made, talk about it and try to know why such mistake was made and find a way forward because if you don't try to resolve the issue in the nearest future such is bound to happen sooner than later..

4: Love and Affection; 

Love comes with affection and to prove you really value your partner you need to show them how much they mean to you.

 You can't be saying you love a person and not show it, even "God who loves mankind gave his only son Jesus Christ as a sign of his love ".  As a sign that you truly love a  person surprising them on their birthdays won't be  a big task. We all love what we see hear and feel.

Being intimate with your spouse, buying of gift cards, chocolate, T-shirt, mobile phone (if they don't have), going to their favorite restaurants, paying an artist to make a drawing for them, spending quality time together will sure make your relationship last longer...

5: Intimacy: 

Being intimate with your partner goes a very long way of having a long and lasting relationship and; in most aspect the opposite side of it can make the couple want to separate. 

Anytime a couple have sxs there is a hormone called Oxytocin that is released into the body, this hormones bound the couple together.

 Intimacy is very essential too in the bound building of every relationship..

6: Friendship; 

The purpose of being in a relationship is to have someone to talk to in time of distress and agony. 

Many people fail to understand that to maintain a healthy and happy relationship, friendship is one key factor.

 The reason why a person will want to be in a relationship is because of friendship. Learn to make your partner your best friend, because at the end of the day they are all you've got. Learn to serve each other,play like kids, attend to your needs both Sexual, material needs, support, prayers and forgiveness...

7: Physical Attractiveness;

 No one wants to move about with someone who is physically less attractive, dirty and unhygienic. 

Most people don't know how to maintain their body due to environmental factors, believes, and culture. Even  God detest dirty people.

 In other to keep a long lasting relationship learn to be clean and smell Good. "Never caught unfresh" buy good body spray or perfumes, bath with clean water, exercise to keep fit and make yourself look beautiful/ handsome for your partner. 

You don't eat dirty food because you're hungry. There's no perfect relationship anywhere in the world but finding that compatible Mate is all that matters..