WHY LADIES SHOULD NEVER CHASE AWAY SUITORS BECAUSE OF A BOYFRIEND.

Most mistakes ladies make is putting all their "eggs in one basket" and when it comes crashing they start regretting their actions. 

As a lady who is ready for marriage and hasn't found the right man yet, the best option is to work hard on making yourself a better person for that "MR Right" . Dear single lady who's still  searching for a husband, never chase away suitors because of a boyfriend.

 Most ladies make this mistakes and end up marrying the wrong persons. No matter how dedicated your boyfriend is, as long as he hasn't popped out the question, you are still single. 

How sure are you that your boyfriend will marry you.?

You might be head over hills in love with your boyfriend and start chasing away other serious suitors, but how sure are you that your boyfriend will end up marrying you.? Every lady is expected to be smart and be able to make the right decisions when it come to the issue of marriage. 

No matter the distance or amount of affection you share with him you should know wether he will eventually ask you to marry him. On intervals ask him when you are settling down together and listen to his response, " by their fruit you shall know them". If he's the type that always give silly excuses or always want to skip the question, be watchful he might ditch you for someone else.

Five Things Every Lady who's Ready for Marriage Should Know.

Go on dates: As a lady who thinks she's ready for marriage, make time to go dates with suitors who seem ready to settle down. Express yourself and tell him what you want and things you feel he should take in consideration. 

While on a date with whoever you choose to go out with avoid sex on the first day. You can go out to your favorite restaurants or somewhere cool and relaxing but avoid going to his place. " You might get tipsy and not realize when you do the unthinkable. 

Never close the door of love because of your past: When it comes to first love, everyone has a story to tell. As a single lady who's ready for marriage, you should not shut the door to your heart to suitors because of your past relationships experience.

 But be careful and smart. By mare looking at any man that comes for your hand in marriage you've known their intentions. wether the relationship  will last or not by their actions and words you've known.. Choose suitors smartly.

Be your man's type: the silliest excuses ladies give before rejecting any suitor is "He is not my type". Before any lady starts chasing away responsible suitors with the phrase " he's not my type" ask yourself if you fit into the category you want your man to fit into. 

If you want a caring man, then as a lady you should be caring also. If you want a rich man, make sure you are established before then. else, you will be tagged a 'gold digger'. No one has it all but building together to achieve the same goal is always worth any sacrifice..

Be hardworking:  No man wants to marry a liability as a wife. Every responsible woman should always be up and doing. Depending on your husband for everything will always make him feel cheated on, because as wife you're supposed to be a helper and not a liability.

 In most Western countries where women knows their rights, every individual is always contributing to make sure the family is doing well. 

Leaving all the responsibilities on the man alone can make him start having second thoughts. Every lady who's ready for marriage should be prepared to be a helper and not a liability.

Avoid Desperation:  there's always a stage in life where every single Lady gets to without finding a suitor and becomes desperate for any kind of person. Pray for your knid of man and be prepared ahead of time. 

Building your relationship on the foundation of true love will always give you the utmost satisfactory feeling you deserve. No matter the stage in life you find yourself don't let desperation lead you into marrying any kind of person. Age is just a number when you find the one that brings peace to your soul.