How to make proper decisions concerning your heart desires.!

 

What have you ever desired to have achieve? What are those dreams you have ever wanted to see come through.?👤💂

Have you decided on what to do yet.? The things we want might not always come on a platter of gold, you know that right?

Now the type of decisions you make really matters a lot wether you are going to achieve what you want as soon as possible or in the nearest future.

If you realize one thing, hasty decisions without proper consideration and thorough thinking can lead one into making bad decisions which they end up regretting.!

Now let's look at it from this view; you might WANT something but you don't NEED it.! 

You are young and full of life.! You want to explore everything humanly but you always have to choose between one thing or the other.!

You want to buy a car, a house, you want to get married and have a family, you want to have your doctorate degree in your field of study. But  you have to choose what you really need first before the other. 

Many people go for what they want rather than what they need. Human wants are insatiable we all fail to understand that simple fact.

You might not achieve everything at once but a step at a time will surely get you there, right at the top.

Nowadays if you ask anybody what they really want or desire they simply says Money.! Money is good. yes.!! But it can also destroy when it comes into the wrong hands. Money can be a weapon of mass destruction, when it gets in the wrong hands so many unthinkable things tends to happen.

Money needs to be controlled but if it happens the other way round there tend to be so many loose ends.

If you decide to go to school, your next reasoning should be graduating  followed by getting better job and a house to live in. When all this is secured, your next move should be getting married if you desire to have a family. 

Before you make any decision seat down and think about how it will affect you in the next 10 years. The future holds great things, but it starts on how you plan and build the foundation.

No one has to take the fall for your own bad decisions, you have to plan yourself. Making sure what you decide to do doesn't make others pay for it when the out come isn't good.

WHAT DO YOU HAVE TO DO THEN.?

1. Self Planning. When you don't plan to succeed, you in turn plan to fail. Before making any hasty decisions, make sure you plan yourself if what you decides to do is what you really need in your current situation. 

2. Take Responsibilities. People seems to always run away from responsibilities when they do things that backfires. Taking responsibilities of our actions is part of being human. You don't make silly mistakes and expect others to pay for it. Life has a funny way of playing tricks on us all, when you do things out of carelessness you surely have a price to pay.

3. Be Courageous. Sometimes doing the right things can be really tough and difficult. But the key to overcoming those setbacks is courage.

 You have to be courageous enough to take the bull by the horns; if that which you decide to do has great importance and won't cause havoc to those around you. 

Being courageous doesn't mean you should do things even if it is wrong. You have to learn to when to stop when doing a particular thing over and over again without any positive result.

4. Be a Listener. For as much as you want to always express how you feel most of the time, like when you are angry, heartbroken and on many other occasions. The best decision to make during this period is to keep quite and calm down.

Different kinds of emotions tends to pour out when people are pushed more than their limits.

 When you keep talking during those times you are angry or broken, so may say harsh words which will come with regrets and cause pains to other people. 

Take a moment and walk out, either go to the studio or a field where you get time alone to think things thoroughly before making any irrational and emotional decision.

When you choose to listen, you get more information more than when you keep talking.