Disadvantage of spying on your partner's phone or chat.

 *10 Disadvantages include*

1. Arguments

2. Lack of trust

3. Unhealthy Habits

4. Revenge

5. Break up

6. Heartbreak

7. Insecurity

8. Emotional trauma or stress

9. Level of commitment drops

10. Possibility of high blood pressure.

More often what leads to lack of trust in a relationship is when couple start spending more time on their mobile accessories, busy chatting or texting while the other spouse is all alone watching and wondering what might be so important than them that is making he or she happy.

Your phone is your private property.! But when you use that same phone to cause the impression that you are cheating, it always ends in premium tears. 

Everyone is entitled to whatever they choose to do with their phones, or whatever contents they choose to have. when you choose your phone as your companion over your lover it always shows there's another person at the other end of the conversation who might be more relevant.

Moreover, most people have that habits of always spying on their partners. This usually comes after a slight of trust was broken or when something seems kind of fishy with how their partners behave.

When a girl feels you are cheating the first place she goes is your phone book, to see your recent calls, next is your text messages to know whom you've always been texting. If she eventually finds what she's looking for, trust me bro she's done with it.

The disadvantage of this is that when a lady keeps spying on her partner, she won't know when things get pretty out of hand. It becomes a habit and you find it hard to trust again.

You can cause your heartbreak 💔 by choosing to read or see who's been texting your partner. If you feel your partner is cheating, confront them in a more normal way as possible to Avoid loosing at both ends.

Now to the guys, the truth is girls can text for all you care and most often their texting to their female friends might seem off key and will leave you wondering who she's cheat on you with.

If you trust someone and they trust you too, then there's no need of spying on each other. If you know you have nothing to hide you have no reason to denial your partner your phone..