No doubts, having a lovely time with the ones you love is good. And having that breathtaking type of relationship is simply amazing. But have you asked yourself what else you need aside from a perfect relationship.?. Probably not.!
In this context I will be elaborating those vital things you probably don't know you need apart from a perfect romantic relationship...
- YOU NEED GOD
- YOU NEED MONEY
- YOU NEED PEACE
- YOU NEED HONESTY
- YOU NEED FORGIVENESS
*YOU NEED GOD*
In everything you do in this life you must always need the grace of God to succeed. Without God, nothing which you do can be fruitful. There will always be something which stands as a setback to distract you from achieving your dreams.
Without inviting God first in your relationship, trust me it won't last. There will be one problem or the other. At the end you two get tired of each other and call it over.
Check the lives of those who don't believe in God ( Atheist) and you will find a lot of things missing. The life we have is like an empty vessel, when we invite God inside, he fills the vacuum and cleans every impurities.
Making God the foundation of your love life is like inviting the perfect architecture to give you the best design. God will make sure you remain happy because you placed him first asides other things. Whatever we do let's learn to allow God lead while we follow..
*YOU NEED MONEY*
"There's a popular saying that says money is the root of all evil" yes, when we allow money control our lives and affairs it becomes a problem. On the other hand, aside other things money is very important in whatever we do. Nobody wants to go into any relationship with a broke person who will become a liability.
When you have money to fend for yourself in a relationship trust me the feelings you derive is much better because you have nothing to worry about financially.
On another note, when you have enough money you solve so many financial needs like buying of food, getting a good house to live, buying a car as means of mobility, going on a vacation , settling of bills and lots more.
When there's no money to look after the well-being of those in the family or relationship everything becomes frustrating.
Some people believe you don't need money to be in a relationship, and most guys think if a girl doesn't agree to date you while you are broke then she's a gold-digger.
In most cases you need someone to be stepping stone to move you to the next level of life. If a girl doesn't reject your proposal because you're broke it won't give you the morale to work hard and become financially stable.
You need money to look after yourself before considering to have a partner. You don't give what you don't have.
*YOU NEED PEACE*
Having everything at your disposal and yet you don't have peace is useless. Being able to communicate with everyone freely without thinking of those you have issues with; helping those around you to promote good environment and being able to breathe fresh air is worth much. How do you consider your relationship perfect when you're not at peace with yourself? What about when you're always fighting with your partner? Do you promote peace?
Ask yourself this question! How do I have peace? How do I promote peace in my neighborhood? Have you ever heard this saying ' Blessed are the peacemakers for they shall be called the sons of God' ? Even the holy bible obliges you to be an ambassador of Peace.
You should be in good terms with your family, partner, colleague, friends, neighbor or whosoever. which ever way any one has offended you make sure you forgive them because you deserve peace of mind.
When you settle issues between neighbors you've automatically become an ambassador of Peace and Unity. You should go to any length to make sure everyone around you is at peace with one another.
*YOU NEED HONESTY*
Practice what you preach! People will always find it hard to believe whatever you say if you happen to be a liar.
Even at your place of work, most people will intentionally test you to see your level of honesty and if you fail, they all see you as a black sheep. Having a good reputation is worth more than a million dollars.
If you're not honest to your partner, the relationship can never be tagged a perfect one because you have proven beyond doubts how untrustworthy you are.
When you make a mistake ask for forgiveness, don't try to cover up the sin. Prove beyond doubts that you can be trusted.
A criminal can never be asked to be a treasurer because they aren't honest and trustworthy. Everyone dreams to have that perfect relationship, but always have it in mind that without this (5) five things I just mentioned, the relationship is worthless and is likely crash before you.
Let's talk about the aspect of politics.
Have you asked yourself why politicians aren't trusted by the masses? The leadership system is not built with honesty, integrity and accountability. Every day the over rated leaders keep deceiving the poor masses with fake promises.
Leaders are supposed to have this mutual understanding relationship with those the lead. Looting of funds and public finance makes no sense. If we come together as one and work for one purpose, honesty will surely dwell amongst everyone.
*YOU NEED FORGIVENESS*
Before you start judging a person because they wronged you, have it in mind that no one is really pure without sins. Learn to forgive people when they do you wrong.
"In the Bible, a woman was brought to Jesus because she was proclaimed a sinner by the law of the land and Jesus said to the those who brought her to him ' he who is without sins should first cast the stone and every single one of them ran away'.
Let's choose to forgive one another instead of trying to cast a stone.
Some people believe that whatever wrong thing that happened to someone else is because of them and they choose not to forgive themselves for it. Verily I say unto you, until you learn to forgive yourself you won't be at peace with yourself.
Ask God for forgiveness of sins and learn to forgive yourself and others and you will discover that aside every perfect relationship there are others things you need to live a good life...
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