How you can Identify Your Soulmate on the first day of approaching them.

 

Your soulmate is someone you have that natural connection with. Someone who just blends to your taste just as you want or desires in a person.

When you meet your soulmate you don't need to pretend to be another person, you just fit in the right category for each other.

Though most people think soulmate is only in fairytale or a character in a movies.

 When you meet your soulmate, you feel fulfilled in all ramifications. Your  soulmate in most cases is your destiny helper, Someone who was ordained to assist you in life. When you meet your soulmate, you definitely have no room to act like someone else around them.

What might make you end up with the wrong person.?

There are so many things you as a person will engage in and end up with the wrong person thereby making life so unbearable for you.  

1. Pretentious lifestyle.

2. Spiritual blindness.

3. Decision making.

4. Behavior/Reputation.

5. Egocentrism.

In this article, I will be explaining how this five points prevent you from  meeting your soulmate and how it could lead you to the wrong person. 

1. Pretentious lifestyle

How do you expect good things to come to you when you decide to live a life of lies and pretends.? Sometimes, your soulmate might be your neighbor next-door but due to the kind of pretentious lifestyle you live, you end up seeing them as "not your class of person" . 

It won't cost you anything if you live a normal life. Pretenders miss a lot of opportunities, you need someone who gives you peace of mind and not vice versa. You could pretend as you want but deep down you know the real you. 

When you pretend to have fame, wealth, luxuries,money and power, what happens when your time elapses.? Definitely everything is vanity upon vanity. Nothing last forever.

Missing your soulmate is a missed lifetime opportunity. Don't end up marrying the wrong person because of the type of lifestyle you choose to live. 

2. Spiritual blindness.

Do you think there's anything like spiritual blindness.? Definitely yes there is.! When you are not spiritual sound and agile you become blind to the things of the spirit.

Before we continue do you believe in spiritual things? You got to understand how this things work, else you end up getting confused. 

By being spiritually blind, this happens when you don't have God in your life. When you allow God to lead you, he will definitely give you your heart desires.

When your spiritual sight is clear, God shows you that which is destined for you. As someone who's not spiritually blind, when you meet your soulmate you have devine confirmation. Your spiritual being alerts you. 

3. Decision making.

Do you know the type of decisions you make really matters.? Now before ending up with the wrong person, ask yourself if he or she is really the right person for you.!

 How do you do these? 

1. Put them to the test.

2. Go for counseling.

3. Ask for Devine intervention by allowing God choose for you.

A lot of people make bad decisions because of emotions or desperation.  When you decide to do away with whatever comes your way because of age or what people might say, you might be ending up with the wrong persons.

Before you make any decision, make sure you think through it and go for counseling.

4. Behavior/ Reputation

No body wants to associate with someone with a bad behavior or reputation. If you feel the kind of behavior you posses is making people to distance themselves from you, I oblige you to think twice.

As long as God won't send you a soulmate with an ugly behavior, he definitely won't lead you to someone who doesn't want the type of behavior  you have which is unpleasant .

Avoid doing anything that will make you look bad in the eyes of people. 

"Though human behaviors differs from person to person, some are traits begotten from parents".

5. Egocentrism

For someone to be considered egocentric, it means that individual is self-centered and only considers what they feel or want without considering how it affects others. 

An egocentric person feels other people opinion doesn't count and sees only themselves as center of attention.

"Although egocentric behaviors are less prominent in adulthood, the existence of some forms of egocentrism in adulthood indicates that overcoming egocentrism may be a lifelong development that never achieves completion.

 Adults appear to be less egocentric than children because they are faster to correct from an initially egocentric perspective than children, not because they are less likely to initially adopt an egocentric perspective".

Changing the way you see people and the type of decisions you make will tell if you're likely to meet with that soulmate sooner than later. 

Posses the qualities you want in others, build on your self-esteem, go for counseling if need be.

 Your love life can change for the better if you let God lead while you follow. Don't make decisions you will end up regretting.