How To Get Someone To Love You.!

  

Its easy to talk about love and all the exciting feelings that comes with it, but finding that somebody who truly loves and respects you can be difficult.

Finding that somebody to grow old together and to share your burden might take a lifetime.

It's easy to say but it's never the same when you are with the right person.

How do you make yourself available to be loved.?

1. Love Yourself- the first step is to love and care for yourself. People appreciate the beauty of what they see. If you can't make time for yourself no one will, your first love comes from within.

If you hate yourself because of a disability or because you haven't gotten what others have you will always attract loneliness and depression.

Be the best you can and let people see the beauty of being around you. Add more meaningful insights to your lifestyle and most importantly care for yourself.

2. Make New Friends- because of one thing or the other many people choose to shut themselves out of everyone. If you want to find love you have to make a positive move by going to places where you will be seen and heard from. 

You can choose to go to the public library and read or to the museum. Just somewhere you get to mingle be other people.

"A retailer won't sell his products unless he makes them noticeable by different people."

So to find love you have to go where you can get it.

3. Be Optimistic- have a positive mindset that you will find someone to love you even when it proves very difficult. Keeping your hopes alive can really go a long way.

4. Build yourself- everyone wants a specific kind of person as a partner and when they don't have them, they keep sailing the ocean of love to find that special someone.

 

What type of relationship do you want? What type of partner do you wish to live the rest of your life with.?

Until you discover that person who completes or fills the vacuum in your life, it will always feel empty.

Be good at what you do and always remain focused on your goals.

5. Be ready to contribute- be ready to contribute to the growth of people around. Love doesn't always come from getting but the greater part of it comes from given. 

Charity for instance can bring you the kind of love and happiness you never bargained for.

The person you help out today might be the love of your life tomorrow, always give a helping hand without a second thought.

6. Age is just a number- just because you are 35 doesn't mean you can't find love in someone who's in their 20s . A great number of people feel love has to do with age.

A 20-year- old can be more mentally matured than someone who's 40 or more.

Love comes in different ways and forms it's just for you to have that inner sight of it and accept the feelings.

Open your heart for every possiblity of finding one.

7. Check the next door- a good number of people find it difficult to love again because they keep hoping on getting that love they ones had back.

If one door of love closes another opens but sometimes we pay too much attention to the closed one that we don't see the one that has been open for us..

8. Trust your heart- No matter how many times your get betrayed or rejected, never stop trust your heart because your heart will always be right. If you love someone, make your intentions known and don't let their response wether positive or negative change the goodness in you.