Marriage is a social Union between two people who have agreed to come together in matrimony. For any marriage to be considered happy healthy and successful, couples must ensure they abide to this simple rules.
1. Respecting each other.
In every happy marriage, there must be respect among the two couples. The respect here comes in the aspect of evaluating one's opinion and decision.
A man must respect the fact that his wife doesn't want him flirting with other women likewise the woman. A woman must also respect the fact that her husband decision on some matters are for the best interests of the family.
While making decisions, every couple must listen to their partners advise on certain decisions they choose to take. When respect comes before love, every love story becomes a perfect love story.
2. Listen to one another.
Try to listen to the other person's opinion on matters that has to do with the growth of your relationship on even on general issues.
You know you have the power to do whatever you want behind your partner without answering for it, but when you crave to get their opinions on matters, it shows you respect he or she and wants the betterment of the relationship not just for selfish interests.
3. Be ready to carry each other's burden.
Hopefully you have an insight of what I am about to say here. The reason for one to be in a relationship compromises of different things. Helping one another during trying times and always looking out for the good of your partner, support, a friend to talk to, a lover, and a soul mate.
Sometimes your partner might be passing through a lot, and all they need is a friend to talk to, someone who would put themselves in their shoes and see reasons why things are happening the way the are and also bring suggestions on how to scale through. If you are not ready to bear a person's burden then it is a waste of time being in a committed relationship. Marriage isn't a bed of roses, there are ups and downs and only the strongest survive.!
4. Marry your friend.
When someone advises you to marry your friend what he or she simply means is for you to marry someone you are already connected to, someone who matches your type of person. Someone who knows you aren't flawless, someone who sees your dark side and still struggles to make you a better partner.
Marry someone you can freely communicate with, someone who doesn't want you be another person while with them, someone who accepts you for whom you are. That's the friend you need as a partner.
Your friend is someone who gives you a listening ear when you need one, who makes out time in between their busy schedule to see you happy and smiling.
5. Be supportive and understanding.
Every body has a dream, wether big or small. For your marriage to be a happy one you need to be supportive and understanding to one another. Whatever goal in life your partner aims to achieve , be the right hand man and encourage he or she. Keep their hopes alive, support he or she all through their journey to perfection. If you don't care or show support, the relationship become cold and uninteresting which will eventually lead to breakup.
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